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Similar to categorizations that note levels of assimilation and resistance to dominant ideologies, another approach to studying responses to hegemonic masculinities has been the identification of multiple typologies of masculine expression. Most commonly he would only receive touch on his hands and his penis which might or might not be sheathed in a condom. Nothing wrong with not being knee-jerk and mindless about queer politics. Participant …you had to kind of associate yourselves with sports and stuff like that, because you were a guy. The whole idea that 'we' should have rights is an essentialist argument. Their efforts to change their self presentation are similar to the primary strategy for managing heterosexism identified by Wilson and Miller
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