Where the mama bear has an issue is that it was a male teacher who paddled her daughter. Kelly, thank you so much for this long and comprehensive reply! Baumrind, b ; Deater-Deckard et al. Your directives will be much clearer and much more likely to be received, understood and followed when you kneel down and look your kids in their eyes, rather than barking commands down at them from way up high — or from another room altogether. She was weak from trying to fight, hoarse from her sobbing and screaming, and numb from being over the other mother's knee for so long.
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Along these same lines…. My older son is heading off to middle school too. Santos said that she still has welts on her, and it has already been a few days since the paddling. The mother, Anna Jorgensen, said that this is why she approved of the paddling. In Model 1, we see that only high-frequency maternal spanking at age 3 is associated with significantly lower PPVT scores at age 5.
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I know a six year old who gets spanked once in awhile and in a calm manner. Facebook Twitter Tumblr Pinterest. Which makes what happened even more frightening. Moms spend a lot of time preparing lunches for their children, and once in a while we pack them a little something extra, a sweet surprise. According to the Daily Mail , as a result of the cheating, Santos received a two-day in-school suspension. We know the harm that expressing our anger can cause. Rage blooms throughout my body, razoring easily through patience long since worn thin and ultimately strangling the loftiest of motherly intentions.
Pregnancy and parenting news, given to you in a way nobody else has. She thought that the school took things way too far. Leave a Reply Cancel reply. I just wanted someone I could love…but when I became famished, I had to eat their souls for survival. She was tired of this game, and wanted to be out of it now!